Pre-Trip Ramblings: December 30, 2006

 
It’s amazing the things you get done when you have a deadline. I had my Post-Xmas/Pre-New-Year/Housewarming & Going-Away-Version-1 Party tonight and boy did I get my place cleaned up good. It is a very good feeling when your place is cleaned and organized. I feel as if a weight has been lifted, which I guess it has since I’ve been procrastinating for a while now. I just have one more shelf and one more room to go through and I am done. I also want to go through my clothes and either have a clothing sale or just donate to the Salvation Army. I also have a few things that I don’t need and so by giving them to the Salvation Army, I’ll gain more room and space.
 
The party was fun and chill, just what I wanted. I wanted to just hang out with my friends. Now you may wonder the reason for the long title for a small party, but I have this thing for combining occasions. This is a going-away-version-1 because I knew that there would friends who couldn’t make it due to the holiday season, so I am planning a going-away-version-2 in January. This way I have a better chance of seeing all my friends before I leave.
 
Chatting with my friends about my trip somehow makes it more real. Everyone had ideas and tips for me, but I told them to email me because there is no way I would remember everything anyone tells me! I will be posting my tentative itinerary here soon, so you can have a rough idea of where I will be on a particular day. Feel free to let me know any tips or notes that you think I should know. Now that I have my place pretty much organized, my next major task is packing. I already have an issue, and that is footwear. I went from taking maybe 3 pairs of shoes to now wanting to take about 6 pairs of shoes! I definitely will have to work on eliminating.
 
Tomorrow is New Year’s Eve. New Year’s has always been my celebratory thing. I don’t really celebrate any holidays besides Chinese New Year since my family isn’t religious. The two occasions that I do celebrate are birthday and New Year’s. This year, I am going to dinner at Ocean 617 and then to Vibes with a big group of friends. I am looking forward to dinner as I have not been to Ocean yet and I looking forward to trying Sean’s cooking. Sean used to work at the Vancouver Club and he was always pretty cool, so it would be nice to see him again. The New Year’s party saga ended well as I got the tickets tonight. It should be a fun party with 2 rooms, hors d’oeuvres, chocolate fountain and one free drink and champagne toast at midnight.
 
I can’t believe we are at the end of 2006. This year has simply gone by so quickly, yet it has been such an incredible year. It felt like it was only yesterday that it was the end of 2005 when I decided that I was going to make 2006 a fantastic year. I am very happy to say that it has indeed been a fantastic year and that I accomplished my mission. I aim to continue on this wonderful journey that I started this year and make 2007 even more fabulous than 2006.
 
Have a fantastic 2007, everyone!

Pre-Trip Ramblings: December 29, 2006

 
So I got to thinking…I leave in 3 weeks and 2 days. Am I excited or am I nervous or am I scared? I think it’s all of the above. You know, I didn’t really sit down and thought to myself: I’m leaving all my friends and family and everything that I know and that I am familiar with for an entire year. I am going to go to places that I’ve never been before and be on my own for an entire year. This is a scary thought. Ok, it’s actually 2 separate thoughts but they are both pretty darn scary. I’ve pretty much planned this trip on the fly over the last six months so I’ve never really thought about the fact that I’m leaving for an entire year. It’s always just been that I’m going traveling for an entire year. I guess you could say that I’m looking forward and not looking back. I guess this is why people don’t like to think. J
 
Seriously though, I will admit that I am nervous about being on my own, a little scared even. But I refused to let these two emotions dictate my trip and my life. I have acknowledged these emotions and now I am letting them go. This trip will be fantastic, fabulous and fun. I am strong and I am ready and I can do it. Not only can I do; I will do it well. I am ready to explore the world and see what different places have to offer. I am ready to experience different cultures and different lifestyles. I am ready to tackle obstacles and challenges that life will throw in my way. I am ready to find out who I am and what I want to do and what I want in life. I am ready.
 
This will be one heck of a trip.

Pre-Trip Ramblings: December 28, 2006

 
I don’t know what’s going on…For the last week or so, all I feel like doing is lying on the couch and watching Sex and the City. I should be cleaning and organizing and packing and planning my trip…Yet, all I want to do is watch Sex and the City. And so I did. I just finished the entire series of Sex and the City and I even watched the bonus materials.
 
So what is it about this show that hooked me the way it did? Was it the fashion? Was it the sex? Was it the shoes? Or was it the fact that this show asked the questions that I’ve asked (as I’m sure so has many other women)? I think it is all of the above plus the fact that it highlighted the fact that being single is and can be fantastic and fabulous and fun.
 
Which leads me to my next thought: I found out that my good friend Chris is now engaged. That makes two friends within the last month who got engaged plus Josh who got married in September. Not only that, I will not be able to go to the weddings since I will be out of the country next year. I have not been to a wedding (other than Theresa’s but I was a bridesmaid so that didn’t count) and at this rate, it doesn’t look like I will ever get to go to a wedding! So a note to all my single friends out there, can you please wait till I get back to get married? 😉
 
Now that I’ve finished watching Sex and the City, maybe I’ll get my motivation to clean up my apartment tomorrow… Well, at least I went and bought my Eurail Passes today… That’s something. 

Pre-Trip Ramblings: December 27, 2006

 
I didn’t really have to go to work today, but I decided to go in for a little bit just to get some stuff done that I couldn’t do at home. It’s funny, but I do like going into work especially when I don’t have to…isn’t that weird? I find that I am more productive because it’s on my own schedule. I think work should be like that; on your own schedule. Of course it’ll depend on the person since everyone works differently. For me, it shouldn’t matter what hours you work as long as everything that needed to be done is done and done on time.
After work, I walked through Pacific Centre to run an errand and I ended up at my favourite store in the whole world: Guess. I know it’s not the most fancy or nicest stuff, but I tend to find some great deals and buys there and today was one of those days. I found a whole bunch of clothes that looked cool and interesting. But I am being very good. I am only buying clothes that a) will be good for my trip, b) on sale and a good deal, c) cool and different, d) all of the above. So for today’s venture into Guess, I ended up with 3 different tops, totally under $100 including taxes. I am trying to be good…

So I made my way to yet another errand, this time for New Year’s Eve tickets. Long story short, they didn’t have the actual tickets so I’ll have meet again for them, but in the meantime, I have to get everyone’s names to put on the guest list as a plan B. Story to be continued…

I spent the rest of my night watching Season 6 of Sex and the City and I have to say, I am addicted. This show is fantastic and my friends were right; why have I not watched this show when it was on TV? My excuse was that it was on HBO and on Friday nights and my family didn’t have HBO and I usually worked on Friday nights. No big deal. I now have the entire series and this is actually better this way because I can watch episode after episode and just purely indulge myself.

Seriously, this show asked a lot of the same questions I’ve been asking myself this year and I’m sure they’re the same questions that other women asked as well. So far my favourite episode is called ‘A Woman’s Right to Shoes’ – the one where Carrie’s shoes got stolen at a baby shower and the question came up as to why one lifestyle (marriage & kids) are looked upon as better than another lifestyle (single & fabulous). I totally agree there. Married people do seem to get a lot of peaks, don’t they? You get engaged, you get gifts; you get married, you get gifts; you have kids, you get gifts. What do you get for being single? I would love to do what Carrie did and get engaged to myself and register to get gifts and have a big party to celebrate my love for me. 🙂


Sex and the City may seem pretty fluffy and trivial, but it manages to combine humour with philosophical questions and that is how I would like to live life. I wonder if I can download the entire series onto my iPod so that I can watch it on my trip and use it to help me answer some of my questions……

Pre-Trip Ramblings: December 26, 2006

 

Boxing Day…It is supposed to be the big day for shopaholics but I actually don’t feel like shopping. I don’t really have anything to buy, other than a few things for my trip, plus I don’t particularly want to be near the crowds.

What I should really do is clean up my apartment. You know the usual, dishes, laundry, vacuum, maybe do some packing…But all I feel like to is lying on my sofa bed and watch Sex in the City. 

Instead I will go and help my friend Christiane move, not sure how much help I would be but at least it’ll get me out of the house and be somewhat active. Then I have to go do some errands for the New Year’s Eve party. Maybe I can see if I find a dress…

Pre-Trip Rambling: December 25, 2006

 
The countdown has officially begun…
 
Exactly one month before I take off on my round-the-world trip… Actually, it’s not exactly around the world since I am not going to South America or most of Africa (I am going to Morocco and Egypt). But I figure hitting the South Pacific, Asia and Europe to big enough to consider this a round-the-world trip.
What have I done so far? I bought my Circle Pacific ticket, booked 3 GAP tours, 5 Cosmos tours, booked an apartment in Paris for a month and planned an itinerary (in draft form) for the 7 months I’m spending in Europe. I have a place to stay when I arrive in New Zealand, and already found a few couches to crash in Fiji and New Zealand.
 
I succumbed to peer pressure (the good kind) and bought a backpack. I also bought a few items that would come in handy, picked out some clothes and started a list of things I should pack. I did a little shopping and bought a pair of boots plus a pair (maybe two pairs) of walking shoes, a light-weight rain jacket, a cozy fleece hoodie, and now am on the lookout for a travel umbrella that opens and closes automatically.
 
Last night I found a website that I can buy downloadable Pimsleur languages lessons audio. I bought 5 languages, French, Spanish, German, Cantonese, and Greek. Next on my wish list is Japanese, Russian, and Italian. I am determined to learn enough of each language to navigate my way around the country.
 
This trip is slowly but surely coming together and I cannot wait to go on this trip of a lifetime.
 

Comments for the photos

Hi everyone!
Thanks for taking the time to visit my blog and to read about my trip. Just a note to let you all know that most of the photos have a comment attached to them, so make sure that you view the slideshow with the comments open, so that you have an idea of what you’re seeing!
Have fun and talk to you soon!
Ying Ying =)

My Trip to Singapore and Bali

Hi everybody!

I had a tough time finding an Internet cafe both in Singapore and in Bali. Hence there was no epic emails and pics sent to you during my trip. So what I decided to do was post all my pics on here and write about my trip in a blog. This way everyone can check it out at their leisure.

Now, onto my adventures in Asia. Now I know that my trip happened over 2 months ago, but hey, better late than never, right? 😉

Here is a collection of my thoughts and reflections of my trip: 

1.) I am getting old… That is the only explanation I have for me feeling sick and taking fricking forever to recover from jetlag! I arrived in Singapore at midnight on Jan 27th, went to bed right away, and proceeded to spend the better part of the next 3 days sleeping!

2.) It was a good thing that it was Chinese New Year during my recover period. All I had to do was greet and chat with the gazillion relatives that kept dropping by as per CNY tradition. Plus most of Singapore shuts down during CNY anyway, so I can’t go shopping. Thus by the time I finally felt like myself again, I can go shopping! Thank goodness for week-long national holidays

3.) 2006 is my "find myself" year. And what better way to kick start this than by coming back to Singapore, the place where I was born? The first thing that I reaffirmed is that while I love Singapore and it is a fantastic country… I could not live here. Vancouver is home for me now. Yay Vancouver! Another thing that I found out about myself? I really am a big city gal, with all the bells and whistles and all the modern day amenities. Sorry all you outdoor enthusiasts, I won’t be going camping or hiking with you anytime soon. I’ll stick with the nice hotels and spas and stuff. 🙂 I learned a lot about myself on this trip, which will really help me figure out who I am. But that’s a different entry altogether. 🙂

4.) I hate mosquitoes… Too bad they love me. I’ve never been bitten so much than in the 7 days I was in Singapore. I once counted 6 bites in about an hour! My mom claims that it’s because I have sweet blood. So I guess I am sweet after all…Ha! Take that all you nay sayers! I am sweet, really, I am! The mosquitoes proved it! There is one good thing about living in a cold climate…NO MOSQUITOES!

5.) I truly believe that the national past time in Singapore is eating and shopping. Everyway I go, my relatives are always asking if I am hungry or if I want something to eat. At least I know I will never starve in Singapore, especially since food is so cheap too. I do miss Singapore food. You just can’t replicate the experience of eating $2 plate of chicken rice with its unique aroma and flavor sitting in an outdoor coffee house. There are so many kinds of food in Singapore that you just cannot get in Canada, especially on the West Coast in Vancouver since it’s so health conscious there. (Not that that’s a bad thing, it’s just that some of Singapore‘s cuisine can’t exactly be considered healthy!)

6.) All of us shopaholics unite! Singapore is definitely a place for us. There are all kinds of shopping available for everyone’s tastes. There is a mall just for designer stuff; any designer you want is here. If I ever become a kazillionaire, and can justify dropping thousands of dollars on clothes and shoes, I would definitely come here. The stretch of shopping heaven is called Orchard Road, it’s similar to Robson and Yonge street (I think) but better. It took us close to 8 hours to go up one side and back down the other side! 🙂 Now that’s shopping! There isn’t just Orchard Road when it comes to shopping, in fact, if you take the MRT (similar to the skytrain and subway), at every MRT station, there is a shopping centre attached or very close by. So in theory, you can just take the MRT and go shopping and not have to walk on the streets for the entire day! How’s that for efficient? I bought a bunch of stuff, but you can read about that later on when I talked about reaching shopping heaven. 😀

7.) We really are very fortunate to be living in one of the best countries in the world. And those of us living in Vancouver, we should be doubly grateful as we also live in one of nicest cities in the world. No offense to those who don’t live in Vancouver. But hey there’s still time to move! Seriously, we don’t appreciate the place we live in until we see how other people live. There are more important things than having the latest IT bag or hanging out in trendy lounges. I totally appreciate the fact that I CAN go out to places like Yaletown and Kits and be able to afford to live in a condo downtown. There are people in other countries who don’t know where their next meal is coming from. I know that there are people in similar situations in our neck of the woods, but it’s easy to block things like that out when you live in a nice neighborhood and hang out in nice areas. Traveling and seeing how people live in the entire country is quite eye-opening and definitely made me more thankful and more appreciative of my life in Canada. I have freedom to do what I want and there are many opportunities available to me that are not available to a lot of people in the world.

8.) Bali is definitely very cheap. The cost of living is very low, but that is because the standard of living is very low. It does make me sad when I see the hawkers trying to sell their fare to tourists. Especially since everyone is so nice and so happy to see us. There has been a dramatic drop in the number of tourists ever since the bomb in Kuta back in Oct 2005. The tourism industry has definitely taken a hit and it’s the Balinese people that have suffered the most. Personally, for some reason, I wasn’t scared to go to Bali. I wanted to go because I had already planned my trip. I felt that if I had cancelled, then the terrorists would have won. That may be irrational or foolish, but I didn’t want the terrorists to make me change my plans. So to everyone, I highly recommend going to Bali for a vacation. It’s great and pretty cheap (once you get there) and it really is a very safe place. The bombing was done by non-Balinese people and the Balinese people are very peaceful.

9.) As you can probably tell by my pics, there are tons and tons of temples in Bali. There are so many that no one actually knows the exact number! Each family actually has a family temple in their backyard, and every village have their own temple in the region. Religion is very big in Bali, and I feel that it is the one thing that keeps everyone going with their lives. There are many ceremonies that the Balinese people perform, some for the humans, some for the animals, some for the tress and other inanimate objects (such as cars), some for their God and his many manifestations, some for the good spirits and some for the bad spirits. Our tour guides on the bus tours provided us with numerous stories about the various ceremonies, one of which is called a tooth-filing ceremony. And yes, that is exactly what it entails. Apparently once a Balinese male reaches a certain age, he undergoes a tooth filing ceremony where his incisors (I think) are filed down (no, not into vampire fangs).

10.) We went on 5 different bus tours, 3 full day ones and 2 half day ones. It was a very educational experience and I definitely recommended doing the tours if you go to Bali and are interested in learning about Bali, its cultures and traditions. Our tour guides taught us many interesting tidbits about Bali. One of them is that in the Balinese calendar, a year consists of 6 months, and then one’s birthday actually always falls on the same day not date. So if you were born on a Monday, your birthday will always be on a Monday, regardless of the date. Cool huh?

11.) The tour were great in the sense that they allowed us to get a better idea of what Bali is like, that there is life besides the beaches and resorts and touristy stuff. Bali is full of rice fields and there are a few active volcanoes as well as forests and lakes. Farming is one of the most common forms of making a living. The major crops are rice, coffee, and cocoa. Did you know that Bali actually produces two types or rice? Me neither. They have one type for export and another type for national consumption. They also produce many spices as well as grow many different tropical fruits. Their coffee is very strong and distinct, their teas are very good and their cocoa is very rich and soothing. 🙂 We got to see a couple of the traditional Balinese dances, their well-known wood carving, stone carving, jewelry and art villages, a monkey village and even a bat that drinks coke! That’s right folks, a bat that lives in a bush by a store and he drinks coke out of the bottle. One bad thing about the tours is that a full day’s tour takes up an entire day and by the time you get back to your hotel, you’re wiped and don’t feel like doing anything. But now that I’ve done them, I won’t have to do them again, so the next time I go back to Bali, I’ll be able to have a truly relaxing time doing things like like surfing and lying on the beach. 🙂

12.) Nasa Dua is the area that we stayed in, and it’s considered the high end resorts area. Where 4 and 5 star hotels and resorts are located. This is good and bad. It’s good because this means that the area is very safe but it’s bad because it feels very isolated from the rest of Bali. Plus, being a more expensive area, the tourists there are definitely much older than us, which meant that I didn’t get to meet any cute Aussies! 😀 After being there, I would want to stay in Kuta the next time since that’s where the good surfing is and is considered the city centre where the shopping and clubs are hopping and where all the young tourists are. 😀 The Ramada Hotel was a 3-star place and it was really nice. I guess it’s not really that big a deal when it comes to a hotel since the idea is that you’re not gonna be in there that much. The pool is great with a swim-up bar, a requisite in a tropical place and the rooms are clean, although there were bugs sometimes (but one phone call to housekeeping solved that problem in a hurry.), the people are very friendly and helpful, and the food was great. The only compliant I have is that it is located at the end of the street, so it feels really isolated from the other hotels and has less shops and restaurants around the neighborhood.

13.) So what did I do in Bali besides going on the bus tours and lying by the pool? I did a lot of firsts, like snorkeling, parasailing and surfing. I learned to surf in Kuta and it was one of the highlights of the trip. The water was warm, the waves were not huge yet it was big enough to get a feel of surfing. I took two lessons and I was able to stand on the board and glide to the beach by the end of the first lesson. The second lesson I focused on timing and being able to turn as I surfed. It was hard work and a solid workout, and it was totally awesome! I can’t wait to go surfing again, but I am a wimp so I’ll till I go to a warmer climate than Tofino. 😀 Parasailing was very fun, it was really cool being high up above the water and seeing a breathtaking view of Bali from above. It was only a couple of minutes long, but it was long enough to get the feeling of freedom. I would like to do it again, a bit longer, and have a camera with me to take some fantastic shots. Snorkeling was also very fun, but the area we snorkeled in wasn’t the best area so the water wasn’t as clear as I’ve imagined/expected it to be, so next time, I’ll definitely try a different spot.

14.) When I wasn’t busy with trying new activities, I was participating in one of my favorite activities. That’s right, shopping! Shopping in Bali is a very different experience from shopping in Canada. First of all, the currency is in Indonesian Rupiah (Rp), not to be confused with Indian Rupee (INR). $1 USD is about 9000 Rp, so it was fun trying to calculate the prices of things with all the zeros. To make things simple for me, I just take off 3 zeros off the prices and that was my estimate on how much things cost in USD. Of course that is not very accurate, but it was a fast way to estimate. If I really want to get an accurate price, I bring out my trusty phone with the calculator function. Secondly, you are expected to barter. That was pretty fun cause it’s like a game. You know that the vendors are going to start high so you go low and just go back and forth. The trick I find is that you have to have a pretty clear idea on how much you think the item is worth and how much you are willing to pay for it. Otherwise, you’ll just lost and frustrated at the bartering system. To be honest, bartering isn’t for everyone, but hey, when in Rome…or in this case, when in Bali… 🙂 Surprising enough I didn’t buy a lot of things. Mainly because I didn’t really have anything in particular I was looking for, only souvenirs, and also I was trying to keep myself on a tight budget after going to shopping heaven in Singapore. 😀

15.) So what did I do to achieve shopping nirvana in Singapore? Well, the coolest tradition of Chinese New Year is that children get hong baos (red envelopes containing money). Anyone who is unmarried is considered to be children so even though I am 26 years old, I still get to receive that marvelous hong baos. 🙂 Let’s just say that the money I received came in handy for buy those things that I have on my wish list. That’s right; I actually compiled a wish list of the things I would like to buy in Singapore. Why? Because all the cool gadgets come out in Asia first and then arrive in North America months, even years later, and not only that, North America only gets some of these cool gadgets, not every thing that comes out in Asia makes it to North America. So what was on my wish list? A new (cool) phone, a PDA, a Sony mp3 player, Bluetooth headset, jewelry, sunglasses and even a laptop. What did I come home with? A very cool O2 XDA II mini PDA/phone (http://www.seeo2.com/product/XdaIImini/template/Product.vm), a pink Motorola H500 Bluetooth headset (http://www.motorola.com/motoinfo/product/details/0,,101,00.html), a pair of bright red (totally trendy) Guess sunglasses (http://www.modernglasses.com/mg2products/GUs-6150.html), a very pretty 3-flower pendant with chain, a number of CDs, clothes plus a number of other things. Like I said, shopping nirvana, I have not bought so many things in such a short period of time in ages. 😀

16.) Besides doing a lot of shopping (even my brothers got into the shopping frenzy) I visited lots of relatives, some of whom we are very close with and some of whom I don’t even remember having (something about 3rd cousins twice removed, and children of cousins of 2nd uncle). I got to see my grandmother who I love very much, but never told her that enough. She took a nasty fall last Oct in her bathroom and had to stay in a nursing home for about 6 months. My mom actually went to Singapore before us in order to help tend her house and keep her company. She was doing so well when we got there, she could sit up and move from the bed to the wheelchair. It looked like she was gonna make a full recovery, until recently. I found out when I got back from Toronto that she fell again and fractured her hip! 🙁 She was so stubborn that she refused to go to the hospital until a week later when the pain got too unbearable. She ended up having surgery and now it’s another long recovery with physiotherapy. I hate it when things like this happen cause it is completely out of my control. So all I can do is call her every week to tell her that I love her and that I am thinking about her and hope that she has a speedy and full recovery. So all of you should tell the people that you love how much you love them and that you are thinking of them, cause you never know what will happen.

17.) My cousins are grown up now! I’ve always pictured them as how I knew them before I left Singapore. This time when we went back, they were either in University or graduated and working. One of them is even engaged! Wow…That sure feels weird. It was really cool to hang out and party with my cousins though, cause they are no longer “little kids”, they are adults with their dreams and ambitions. We went to a club cause all of us were of legal age. Apparently, the legal drinking age in Singapore is 18 years old! Who would have thunk? I thought for sure the legal age is 21 years old since Singapore is so strict with everything else, but their legal age is even lower than Canada! Totally trippy! So anyways, the club we went to is actually three clubs in one complex. There are Velvet Underground, Phuture, and Zouk. The way cover works is if you pay for Phuture, you get to only go to Phuture, if you pay for Zouk, you get to go to Zouk and Phuture, and if you pay for Velvet Underground, you get to go to all three. The cover is $18 for both Zouk and Phuture (so you might as well pay for Zouk and that way you get to go to both) for females and $25 for males, and $23 for Velvet Underground for females and $35 for males. Cover charge includes 1 free drink. There were drink specials all night, and the music was pretty different. The night that we went, Phuture was playing something called “drop-beat”, not sure how to describe it, but it was pretty funky and cool. Zouk was playing house and dance, and Velvet is more high end with house and lounge music. The other club that I was gonna check out is the Ministry of Sound. They’re really big in London and so it would have been cool to see what it was like. Next time!

18.) We have now come to the end of my ramblings about Bali and Singapore. Congratulations on making it this far, you really are a trooper! Thanks for taking the time to read my collection of reflections on my trip. It didn’t really follow any sort of order (just like the way my brain works!) so I hope you didn’t get too lost trying to follow my train of thought. If you have any questions about anything that I have written or about the pictures that I’ve posted, please feel free to email me or call me and I will do my best to answer them (I mean, it has been two months since the trip happened! :D).  The next installment will be about my trip to Toronto. Keep yours eyes peeled for it! Come back soon!

Lots of love,

Ying Ying =)